Why do people say such insensitive things?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999
Why do people say such insensitive things?
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Fri, 07-08-2011 - 8:41am

But you had 25 years of wedded bliss, so like if you have more than 20 - you don't deserve anymore?

My one sister is clueless.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Fri, 07-08-2011 - 3:52pm

~Josie~ Hug.

I think when people say stuff like that they genuinely think they are helping by pointing out the positives but it sure doesn't help much.



iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999
Sat, 07-09-2011 - 8:29am
thanks so much Promise. I just sent an email to a reitred minister at church to see if he can meet with me as I am so NOT feeling God's love right now.
I know my hubby loved me as much as any human can love another, and me in return to him.
I am sorry on the no kid comment, people are clueless, aren't they? love, Josie
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Sun, 07-10-2011 - 5:48am

I hope the minister can help you Josi. Do let us know how it goes, if you feel like sharing.

Promise



iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999
Sun, 07-10-2011 - 7:57am
Thanks Promise, I see him at 1pm on monday at the church. Skipping church service today since last week's triggered several hours of crying at home.
hugs, Josie
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Mon, 07-11-2011 - 1:56pm

Those crying jags are doing you good I feel.



Community Leader
Registered: 10-22-2001
Tue, 07-26-2011 - 2:13pm

~hugs~

<3

Lorie

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