Widowed longer than married...

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Widowed longer than married...
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Fri, 07-22-2011 - 1:56am

So been thinking about this lately.. and its crazy.


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Thank you Dedi and Kelly for my
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Registered: 03-20-2009
Mon, 07-25-2011 - 1:10pm

It is hard to see how far you have come when you are on the bereavement path but you have come a long way.



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Mon, 07-25-2011 - 8:34am
thanks Promise, I don't always feel I am that strong but everyone keeps telling me I am. hugs to you! Josie
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Sun, 07-24-2011 - 12:17pm

Hey Josie,

I can see why you'd prefer not to ask for family help.



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Sat, 07-23-2011 - 8:22am

Thanks Katie and Promise.

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Registered: 01-29-2008
Sat, 07-23-2011 - 12:00am
Thanks Promise. I have talked to Z about James and shown him his pictures (not like he can really see them but lol). I hope he continues to see them. I think it would be an awesome gift to him.

Probably right if they won't be consistent but would be nice for all of us. Hopefully they'll come around. Z's dad has which is like WOW (not 100% but a lot better!) so there is room for them too.

It does suck.. Sorry you have too and his family acts like you don't exist! Sad. :-(

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Thank you Dedi and Kelly for my
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Fri, 07-22-2011 - 11:57pm
Sorry you have stepkid woes too! ;-( Thats too sad! I hate how families do that once someone dies. Hugs to you too! I will always have the door open for them just hope they come back around.

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Thank you Dedi and Kelly for my
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Fri, 07-22-2011 - 11:36am

Hey Josie,

I am real sorry you have stepfamily woes as well. I guess that might be part of what happens when our loved ones pass away.



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Registered: 03-20-2009
Fri, 07-22-2011 - 11:33am

Hey Katie,

I know James was with Z that night , he is his wonderful guardian angel.



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Fri, 07-22-2011 - 7:26am

HI Katie, and I am sorry on your stepsons.