You'll get over it.

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You'll get over it.
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Thu, 05-05-2011 - 1:43pm

That's what this woman at work said to a colleague who has just lost her mom.



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Thu, 05-05-2011 - 10:06pm
I feel the same way Promise! (and been wondering how you were!) You can't get over it, you get through it. Its hard, but loving someone and then not having them here (whether a friend, family, etc). People just don't get it.. And all those "self help" books or fraud "drs" out there try to tell you the same. UGH!

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Fri, 05-06-2011 - 6:53am

Hi Promise and Katie.

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Sat, 05-07-2011 - 4:25pm

Hi Katie,

I am so steamed over it, smoke is coming from my ears.



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Sat, 05-07-2011 - 4:26pm

Hey Josie,

thiese things do stir up memories for sure.



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Thu, 05-12-2011 - 12:04am
I get that way sometimes too.. It is so very insensitive. Some people just need added to the line up to be slapped! How are you doing besides the slide back?

I'm doing ok.. the funk is starting as its less than 10 days now until the 2 year. UGH! :-( Then 9 days later is Memorial Day. Hoping to get through those before Z is born. Otherwise just same ole same ole lol

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Thu, 05-12-2011 - 3:16am

~hug~ Katie.



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Thu, 05-12-2011 - 5:04pm
Thanks Promise! You are right. They are hard. This time two years ago we were preparing to start cycle 4 which killed him. I am glad that Z has a good person watching over him. Already have a frame in his room that says "My Hero" which will have a pic of James in it for him. Thanks for the kind words too and the comment on the sig. ;-) Hope you are good and have a good weekend!

Hugs!

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Thank you Dedi and Kelly for my
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Fri, 05-13-2011 - 3:23pm

~Katie~



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Fri, 05-13-2011 - 3:39pm
Glad you are having a good day! You need one of those, and hopefully 3 or 4 or more too in a row!!

I'm feeling ok. He really likes to kick the sternum or ribs and poke his booty out which is uncomfortable, but kinda funny too. We get into poking wars usually after that. Otherwise I'm ok.. just ready to get things finished sorted out and then come June (better not be early! lol) meet him! If you want you can go to my baby pool and make a guess http://www.expectnet.com/games/Zaydren

Hope you get a nice relaxing weekend! HUGS!

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Sat, 05-14-2011 - 11:28am

I put in my guess. :smileyhappy:

You look after yourself and get as much resas you can cos you'll sure won't get much after Z arrives.

Promise



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