"You'll get over it...."

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Registered: 03-20-2009
"You'll get over it...."
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Sun, 09-11-2011 - 11:12am

I found this a few moments ago. Unfortunately I don't know who wrote it:



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Sat, 09-17-2011 - 10:49am

Hey Katie,

you are so right, it is a very personal journey.

How are you doin', you and that gorgeous little man of yours?

Promise



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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 10:52pm
hugs sweetie. Around 9/10 months is another hard time leading up to 1 year. I don't think we ever get over it. If you never remove your ring that is ok. This jorney is personal.

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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 3:15pm

Hey Josie,

that quote said it all didn't it.

Sweetie, it is still real early days for you.



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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 5:38am
P.S. I did just click on the quote and with my computer, it didn't access it. had some comment that was clueless to my lack of computer brain.
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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 5:36am

I am so not computer savvy, that was my husband's role so thanks for sharing the whole quote.

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Thu, 09-15-2011 - 3:45pm

Josie, I wish I could take your pain for you.

Promise



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Thu, 09-15-2011 - 3:44pm

Sweetie, did you click on the quote? It's a beautiful one.

You'll get over it...' It's the clichés that cause the trouble. To lose someone you love is to alter your life for ever. You don't get over it because 'it' is the person you loved. The pain stops, there are new people, but the gap never closes. How could it? The particularness of someone who mattered enough to grieve over is not erased by anyone but death. This hole in my heart is in the shape of you and no one else can fit. Why would I want them to?”



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Registered: 11-04-1999
Wed, 09-14-2011 - 2:25pm

Maybe the author of that quote got over losing their person, but approaching 10 months and I don't think I ever will get over it.

Simple things like hearing a friend's husband is going to take the day off to take her for a special outing on her birthday.