Do the losses get easier or harder?

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Do the losses get easier or harder?
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Wed, 09-19-2012 - 10:56am

I know my own personal experience is that each loss seemed to get harder but I have a friend who has had several and she feels like they get easier. What do you think?

Karla
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Sat, 10-13-2012 - 12:13am
I just had my 3rd mc. It was my earliest one, only 6 weeks and the whole process was a bit easier. I guess bc i didnt allow myself to get excited. I think this one was the hardest for my husband though. My 2nd one was the hardest for me. Since i was 12 weeks i thought i was in the clear....However we are now seeing a RE for the first time and while I'm hopeful, it's also very scary.
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Tue, 09-25-2012 - 12:14am
I think they get harder myself...I just found out I'm pregnant with #8 (no living kids). But people around me think well okay if you'd just lost one or two but you know what to expect now...no one thinks about how frustrating it is to keep losing them while most of my friends have gone on to have 3 or 4 kids...