Don't know what to do.

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Community Leader
Registered: 10-10-2007
Don't know what to do.
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Sun, 12-02-2012 - 3:03pm

I have been trying to get on iVillage and finally got on.

Life is extremely rough now is so many ways.  I lost my best friend recently .......

Both my DH and BF have broke promises and I am devasted and have lost trust in what anyone says to me now.

I use to believe in forever and always, not anymore.

My best friend had sent me a email weeks ago with all these things I was doing wrong or what she did not like about me.  With her, now I feel too like the past 20 years of her kind words in friendship all were "lies."

I am struggling at this moment and have no idea what I am going to do.  Never in my life have I been this hurt or felt this let down by the closest people in my life.

I do know if I have the strenght anymore.

 

Community Leader
Registered: 10-22-2001
Sun, 12-02-2012 - 3:38pm

~hugs~

I am so sorry Heidi...<3

I believe that you do have the "Strength"...You are ONE Courageous Woman...

Believe in yourself Sweetie!!!

Nightangel
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 12-02-2012 - 3:57pm

Heidi;

I have no good words of wisdom except take a break and some deep breaths and try and destress somehow..and then when your mind is clear start focusing on what you want .. Only you and not anyone else..

I would also start therapy if I were you and some support groups to get you through these tough times.. You are not alone and many of us have been thrown alot of curve balls.. The difference is that you are strong and you are resilent and you will def. bounce back but keep moving forward in a good direction so that you make good choices..

Heck; If you need to sep. from your husband then find a way to do it. If you need to go back to your family for support then see if that works for you.. Do what is best for you but make sure you do the counseling and see a lawyer just in case..

We love you and sending a bunch of love and hope and prayers..

Hang In there because tomorrow will be so much better.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Mon, 12-03-2012 - 3:27pm

Hey Heidi,

I am real sorry you are not doing good right now. Life has a bad habit of kicking us when we are already on our knees. Sweetie, you are a warm and compassionate lady who has helped so many of us. You are a light in the world.

I am real sorry your friend is not accepting you for who and what you are and also that your husband is being mean to you. I would love to be able to tell them to value you for you, foryour weaknesses and for your strengths. It is the mix of our weaknesses and strengths that make us into who we are and we should all be loved and appreciated for whatever this makes us.

You have the strength within you sweetie.

Love

Promise



Avatar for sunset5000
Community Leader
Registered: 10-10-2007
Tue, 12-04-2012 - 5:23pm
Thank you all for caring and your kind words. I am doing better, was just a rough day that day. How are you all? Love,

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Wed, 12-05-2012 - 1:28pm

~HUGS~

love

Promise