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Registered: 09-25-2003
welcome back J Thursday
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Thu, 04-17-2014 - 7:21am

Phew, yesterday was a whirlwind, starting with an early morning meeting that took 90 minutes to drive to, work all day, a lawyer-interview-phone-call at the end of the day, an emotional breakdown with dh over the legal issues (this legal stuff keeps making me second guess my past decisions), and, then, linedancing all evening.  Today, I have work, interviews with two more lawyers (where I get to dredge up my dreaded past baggage), and then I will either have a martini or go to dog training, depending on how I feel.  I do not deserve the "gymrat" title this week, as I haven't worked out since last week, unless you count linedancing last night.

Karla, how HORRIBLE for the parents of that girl and the carnage that it leaves behind for everyone who knew her.  I am still "reeling" from my work colleague who did the same, leaving four daughters, a wife, his parents, four siblings, and the "friends" around him.  :(  GR, thanks, as always, for your insights into everyone's "issues."  You are so kind to us all.  :)  Jean, welcome back, and how wonderful for you to have had that time with your daughter!  SJ, running at 6?!  That's FAST!  But I empathize on how you feel after a good cardio workout.  I used to do that frequently, but my foot still hurts me too much for cardio like that with my foot.  :(

Have a great day, everyone...I have way too much to prepare for with these legal interviews/reviews!  YUCK.  *^$&^$($#$()$(__&*(&^*$#%

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Community Leader
Registered: 09-25-2003
Thu, 04-17-2014 - 8:24pm

Funny, but my mom insisted that my dad's service was a, "Celebration of Life."  My relatives commented that the service was the most uplifting that they had been to.  I spoke, representing the family, and reminded everyone that just as my dad touched their lives, each person there touched HIS life in a positive way.  I learned so much about my dad that day!  It was the most positive service I went to.  I feel blessed that he was in my life!  :D

I am more white than you, GR?  I got a 27.  :O  They call me a "twinkie."  lol.

I am feeling SO RELIEVED, after interviewing one of the three lawyers today. Dh said, based on my demeanor, I should just hire him...but I never make a big decision without "sleeping on it."  I felt like it was a "sign" that he also has a bull mastiff (that he met me at the office door with), he is getting a bull mastiff puppy in two weeks (that I made him promise that I can meet), and that he wears cowboy boots.  I also liked that although he is super short, he did not have a "short man's complex," which I admire.  His rates are super high, but, then, my guess is that supply and demand dictates his pricing?  I have two more interviews on Monday, but I don't feel very motivated about them.  Life is better today!

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Registered: 05-08-2006
Thu, 04-17-2014 - 9:20pm
Well, I am surprised to learn that I am 'Not White' because all these years, I thought I was....maybe I am just unaware? Jean,I love the idea of spending the funeral money on planting flowers. Thousands of daffodils have been planted along the marathon route this year...for a while I didn't think they would bloom in time, buti think they will be perfect. My mother didn't want any funeral service, but I always told her I would do what my brother needed...we had a family only service that he lead, and we asked people to share stories. - it was really wonderful, and what I think I would like for my dad - which is odd in a way because they divorced so long ago and had not a lot in common - but in some ways, are very alike. FSN, I hope you have found the right lawyer for you. I would have difficulty sustaining the fight for so long and would be tempted to pay anything to make tigon way. Is there an end once your children reach a certain age? I ran this morning before lifting...I ran 4/10s of a mile without stopping, then 2/10's twice..ended up with a total of two miles in 26:49...really. Good for me. Then lifting for shoulders, bis, tris, then abs.
Community Leader
Registered: 04-05-2002
Thu, 04-17-2014 - 9:42pm

That sounds like a great service you all did for your father.  It must have been touching, in a such a positive way.  

Did you really get a 27???  That's more than anyone else I've read! I'm just off the beaten white path.;-)  OTOH, I'd probably score even lower in a how asian are you quiz.

Good luck with the lawyer!  Hope this one is the winner.






Community Leader
Registered: 04-05-2002
Thu, 04-17-2014 - 9:47pm

Good job on the running! I find running to be the most taxing workout and you fight for improvement. I love the idea of the daffodils along the path. I'll bet it would be quite the impact.  I've always thought that we should do something in the name of people who are victims of tragedies--something like plant a tree for each person or vow to do an act of kindness per person. Can you imagine how awesome it would be if people who were caring did a random act of kindness for each child who died in Sandy Hook?  It could be such an uplifting action on the world. A nonprofit could sell cards that the person could pass out that talked about the child he/she was doing it for.  Sales of the cards would go towards their choice of non-profits.  It could never take away the pain but it could help.






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