My DD has talked to the kids about their large family.
Kids can be so cruel, and you're right, they are only repeating what they hear from their parents.
Sounds to me as if someone was under the mistaken belief that the family is receiving 'State support' or that your grandkids are "foster kids" and thus providing income for the family!
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