Is My Mom In The Way of Me Living My Life?
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|Tue, 03-13-2012 - 2:32pm|
Hello, for those of you who don't know this I'm new to ivillage, but very excited that I joined. So here's what I'm writing about: you see I'm not sure if it's ok for my mom to be in my life. I mean for one she just left me and my fiance at the Mall today because she had "more important" things to do than wait for me to get done with my interview for my new job, and see it is a 2 hour walk from the Mall to my house, and she knows this but yet she still leaves us up there. She never shows up when we have something important to do and she always tells us that we can rely on her and when we give her our information and time(s) she never shows or she's extremely late. Is it wrong for me to think that a mother is supposed to put her children before everyone else despite their age. And on top of things when I get home I try to call her and she forwrds my call each time. Then finally she answers...but she hangs up right after she answers. So I try to call again and she turns her phone off. I'm only 18 and I'm still learning how to do things in todays economy and I thought she would help me get on my feet but apparently she won't and I don't know what to do about it. Like how do I go about handling this problem with my mom and is she in the way of me trying to live my life with the way she's treating me and my fiance? What should I do?