How do you know if she's a lesbian

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Registered: 01-23-2013
How do you know if she's a lesbian
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Thu, 09-05-2013 - 1:54pm

How do you know if someone you have just met is a lesbian without directly asking? I don't want to make a mistake.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 09-05-2013 - 7:47pm

I'm not sure there is any other way.  I have a friend that takes dance lessons in my school--she wore a wedding ring, so I assumed she was married to a man.  I wondered why he was ok with her going out & dancing w/ other men.  It was only when someone told me that she was a lesbian that it dawned on me.  Some women are more "butch" or masculine appearing and you can tell, but there are women who are feminine looking, wear makeup etc. so you can't always tell.