How would you feel?

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Mon, 12-06-2010 - 2:51pm

This weekend, I went on a bus trip with dd, a friend of mine and a friend of my friend to Chicago.

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Wed, 12-08-2010 - 7:26pm
I agree Karla it was insenstive and rude. Cheryl you had every right to be upset.

                                          

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Wed, 12-08-2010 - 12:33pm

Thanks everyone.

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Wed, 12-08-2010 - 9:58am

No

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Tue, 12-07-2010 - 12:25pm

Well, I wondered too if they were 'rude'.

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Tue, 12-07-2010 - 12:20pm

I don't think it's overly sensitive at all. In fact, I'd be a little upset over the rudeness of everyone else. It just seems so insensitive of the group not to have slowed down for you.

Karla
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WALKING
EXERCISE and HEALTHY LIVING

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Tue, 12-07-2010 - 12:19pm

That is a good one too Karla!

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Tue, 12-07-2010 - 12:11pm

Oh wow Cheryl, I'd be a little upset too. I think I would have said something like "hey girls-I can't walk this fast and I'm not having fun trying to keep up".

Karla
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WALKING
EXERCISE and HEALTHY LIVING

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Mon, 12-06-2010 - 10:52pm

Well, now Jan, I just might come 'shop' with you anyway!!!

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Mon, 12-06-2010 - 10:09pm

(((( Cheryl )))), I'm sorry your 'group' was so insensitive to your needs. I walk slowly, too. Having little short legs doesn't help any. I've always had trouble keeping up with others, even when I was in great shape. Walking with dh or my brother is like running a race. I do have a couple of friends that also walk slowly, so we don't have that problem when we go somewhere together.

I would have felt like crying, too. I really think it was rather rude of them to leave you trailing behind like that. For sure if the idea ever comes up again to take a shopping trip like that, I'd decline the offer. Now, if you came to my area, where we have a huge, new shopping center with just about every kind of store you can think of, I'd be thrilled to mosey along with you!

Jan


 

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Mon, 12-06-2010 - 8:02pm

Thanks Mary.

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