Feel unloved

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Community Leader
Registered: 10-10-2007
Feel unloved
Tue, 08-28-2012 - 12:50pm

I hope you all don't mind if I weep a moment and then move on and not feel pity on myself.

For some reason, I am feeling like no one likes me anymore.  Like, I am taking it personal the past few days that several people have not returned messages (text, phone, email, etc.).  I know we all are busy, but it seems it is coming from everyone I know lately and I take these things so personally and feel sad.  I know I need to work on this, but having a hard time at the moment.  I know I am loved, just feel like no ones likes me right now and I don't know why.

Thanks for reading.



Community Leader
Registered: 10-22-2001
Tue, 08-28-2012 - 2:04pm

So sorry you are feeling this way Heidi!




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Community Leader
Registered: 10-10-2007
Tue, 08-28-2012 - 2:08pm

Thanks Lorie

How are you and your children doing?


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Tue, 08-28-2012 - 2:33pm

Oh; me too so sorry Heidi you are feeling unloved.. but its not true.. We are all connected in some way and have met on the boards for a reason so remember that your fellow posters love you.. I love you but you know we all have our major issues and problems and cant always be around.. I mean right now I have to run out to a thousand stores to get stuff.. I hate that but I need to try and save money so its like four or five stores in one shot. that is also to save on gas..GGGRRRRRRRRRRRrr  Then its always those darn chores we cant get away from ..

I wish I could put on a jetpack and just fly right over to your house and give you a big HUG....Hey; maybe they will invent those things soon.. Heck; we can go to Mars why not that??

Hang in there because you are strong and a big cyber hug and much healing energy coming your way.


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Tue, 08-28-2012 - 7:03pm

Hey Heidi,

I guess I understand how you feel . We can feel real lonely when people seem to not be communicating with us and stuff. And I think low self esteem is also a factor, well it is for me and  most people here. You as well?  You are a great CL and we love you.




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Community Leader
Registered: 10-10-2007
Mon, 09-10-2012 - 8:19am

Good morning Ed,

Welcome to our board!!  Thank you for posting and sharing your thoughts, very interesting what you are saying.

Let me ask you this:  you mentioned that in some ways, women might envy us, what do you mean?

I am trying to understand from a male point of view.  You said, "you can't imagine just how lonely a man's life really is on the inside"  Please explain further.  If many men are lonely inside, how do you think they may behave toward others?  Do you think they may show sadness or anger?

I want to understand.  Thanks for coming to the board and sharing.  Look forward to your reply :smileyhappy: