I thought...

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2003
I thought...
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Sun, 10-09-2011 - 1:06am

HI all, it's me again!

I thought we wouldn't be given things we couldn't handle.

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Registered: 11-04-1999
In reply to: tiggrtch
Sun, 10-09-2011 - 6:03am

HI, I hear you and I feel your pain as back in 2010 my mom died in May, husband suddenly in a traffic accident in November and I broke my left ankle Jan 2011 and retired Feb 2011.

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Registered: 03-20-2009
In reply to: tiggrtch
Sun, 10-09-2011 - 1:34pm

Hey sweetie,

you sure are taking a real battering on top of everything else you have had to cope with. Life seems to have a real knack for hitting us even harder the moment we are already struggling.

You have to do what is best for you. Ask yourself honestly if you would be better able to cope on your own if you divorce your DH . Is your heart really into saving your marriage or are you doing it because you feel you ought to. Please don't think I am suggesting divorce because I am not. Only you can make that choice but make the choice on what is best for you.

Facing several bereavements in a row when you have not even had the chance to recover from the loss of your mom is bound to make you feel like you are sinking. Wish I had some way of making it easier for you. But please know I do care about you, as does everyone who knows you on this board.

In gentleness

Promise



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Registered: 01-20-2005
In reply to: tiggrtch
Tue, 10-11-2011 - 11:24am

Yes, I am glad that I read this b/c you are obviously quite upset and exhausted.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2003
In reply to: tiggrtch
Tue, 10-11-2011 - 7:38pm

Thanks, everyone.

I am not in therapy at the moment, as I just cannot afford it, and to be really honest, my therapist can't fix the problems.

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