Too happy and nice

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Registered: 01-16-2013
Too happy and nice
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Tue, 02-12-2013 - 8:52am

I struggle with my own feelings and have to admit I do have a negative attitude most of the time but have you ever met someone who was just too happy and too nice? I sat in church Sunday thinking about my life and I couldn't help but think about this one particular woman that is always happy and cheerful and giddy. At first I thought she was just one of those rare wonderful people that the rest of us strive to be but the more I think about it, I don't buy her happiness and wonder what she is covering up. She is just simply too happy all the time. I don't know, maybe she really is that happy and content and the fact I am miserable for no apparent reason just skews my thinking. What do you think-could this ultra happiness be real?

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Registered: 08-01-2012
Tue, 02-12-2013 - 12:00pm

She could truely be that happy, but honestly, some people aren't comfortable presenting anything other than a positive face in public. But it could also be that you're own feelings are coloring your perception just a bit; maybe she just seems too sappy-happy about life to you because you're having a rough go of it right now. I hope things get better for you soon!