Where I have been

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Community Leader
Registered: 10-10-2007
Where I have been
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Mon, 12-12-2011 - 10:15am

I don't know if any of you have been wondering why I have not posted in a few days.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 12-12-2011 - 10:23am

Hi;

I hope you are doing better now?? Have you gotten anything resolved??
I woke up today in a very depressed mood.. just having bad thoughts about no job, no relationship and nowhere to live that is a good situation.

I even reach out to people I think care but they dont.. They are out for themselves.. I rely on God but he must be busy..

Sorry.. Having a pity party today.. I know it could be worse but just feeling down.

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Community Leader
Registered: 10-10-2007
Mon, 12-12-2011 - 11:38am

freeatlast2008,

No need to apologize, I understand.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 12-12-2011 - 12:03pm

Hi; Yes the board is very helpful as its something to look forward and stuff to read. thank you

I think this time of year is depressing to me because everyone is walking around happy and shopping and all of that etc.etc.. I try and stay out of the malls and all places where I see happy happy couples (lol)... just hoping this month passes fast and then hoping the New Year will be better. But doesnt everyone say that??

It seems some of my friends vent to me about their problems and then as soon as I say something about myself they have to go..I know I probably need better and newer friends..

Yes; marriage is def. alot of work and its everyday the work needs to be done but both people have to work at it.

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Community Leader
Registered: 10-10-2007
Mon, 12-12-2011 - 12:21pm

I have talked to several people on the boards and some friends and think that the number of people who are deciding to not celebrate Christmas is increasing.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 12-12-2011 - 12:35pm

I agree with you and I do have family but they are not supportive.. I live with them and they make me feel unwanted. I know that sounds strange but its the truth.. So when I dont feel wanted with them I leave and go to a friends house but I cant stay at the friends as they have their own issues.

So in between looking for work and a place to live this is my life..;my reality and I do the best I can.. As you know though things become very overwhelming dont they?
Your kids must be precious at 3 and 7.. I would def. do christmas as they shouldnt miss out on that... My friend has a ten year old and she doesnt want to do a tree or decorate this year because her house is up for sale

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Community Leader
Registered: 10-10-2007
Mon, 12-12-2011 - 7:25pm

freeatlast2008,

You are more than welcome :smileyhappy:

I love the dark chocolate covered cherries.

My apology for not remembering, are you on medication?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Tue, 12-13-2011 - 2:27pm

Hey Heidi,

don't worry.



iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Tue, 12-13-2011 - 11:32pm

freeatlast - I believe that our society has made way too big a deal about the decorating and gift giving of Christmas (and I'm usually right there with them).

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Wed, 12-14-2011 - 12:05pm

You know, you are so right right. You have put it perfectly.



iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Wed, 12-14-2011 - 8:07pm

That's what I had planned for Christmas this year - just a few special things.

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