Question about husband

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Question about husband
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Thu, 03-08-2012 - 9:15pm

I posted quite a while back about my husband's anorexia and exercise bulimia.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Wed, 04-04-2012 - 11:34am

Sweetie, I am really hoping something will turn up that will enable you to break free.



iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Wed, 04-04-2012 - 12:08am

Spending the difference in what I'm making now PT and what I could make FT on an apt would be ok.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Tue, 04-03-2012 - 11:12pm

so you are saying that if you got a full time job in another town

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Tue, 04-03-2012 - 6:32pm

Have applied for jobs as far away as three hours each way.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Tue, 04-03-2012 - 2:49pm

oh; okay

I was wondering if you are applying for jobs out of town where would you live and how would you do that??

I am always trying to find ways to live somewhere else and work but then I chicken out and think do I find a place to live first or do I find a job first??

would you rent a room or something and how far would you go out of town?
thanks

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Tue, 04-03-2012 - 2:47pm

Promise,

He came back a few days later and turned that talk into how difficult I am to live with.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Tue, 04-03-2012 - 2:41pm

Both of my daughter's are newly married.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2005
Tue, 04-03-2012 - 2:38pm

He works for the post office.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Thu, 03-15-2012 - 4:03pm

Hey,

Chronic pain really drags us right down and colors our lives. So does watching someone with ED.



iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 03-15-2012 - 11:30am

Toby I was thinking about something for you which is crazy since I cant figure out my own life (lol)

Anyway;; You have a few kids right?? Could or would you ever consider living with any of them or getting a huge place with them and sharing? Like have private quarters but still live with them and share expenses.? Take some of that equity out of your house and use that money to live somewhere else??

That way you stay married but sort of sep. and can have hubby;s insurance but still live separate and live your own life. You can still check up on him from time to time and when he seems out of it call the hospital or whomever you call for him?Or do you stay around to help him with his illness??? what about getting a nurse;s aid for him or some help if he needs it..

I was also thinking have you ever thought of just sharing a place with anyone else and just staying married for the benefits?

If none of this sounds ideal then if I were you I would stay where you are and live

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