Worst life situation ever, need help!
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|Mon, 07-23-2012 - 5:53pm|
Me and my DH have a 10 month baby girl and whilst I lost my job during my pregnancy, my DH lost his 2 months after the baby was born. We had to leave our rented house and fortunately his uncle and aunt offered us an empty house to stay while we resolve our lives. But this was supposed to be just 2, 3, 4 months, and we're living there for almost 1 year already!
We've been trying hard to find jobs but it seems that something negative always happen! I had some interviews that went well but then for one reason or the other there was no job offer. My DH's had only 2 interviews in months, no job offer either.
We're getting so sick and tired of this situation, our moms are helping us finantially and they've been great support, but we lack having our home, our money, our life! I would like to have a room for my daughter as well and buy her nice things with my money and it's so frustrating I can't, specially when we used to have a wonderful life with good payed jobs.
It says that "when the going gets though the though get going" and that's what we've been doing, but I'm getting depressed and tired with this situation, as my DH is. The only positive thing about this is being able to spend our days with our baby girl and watch her grow, for her this is gold and for us as well. But I desperately want our life back and our indepedency.
We've been trying so hard to find a job but nothing and nothing happens. I never stayed out of work for more than one month and usually I used to get the job when going to a job interview, but now nothing happens. Even last week I had a phone interview that went really well, then they invited me to a face-to-face interview last Friday that to me went really well, and today they told me that they won't proceed with my application since I don't have experience in something that is not on the job description and they didn't even ask me at the interview! And specially when I DO have that experience, if they've asked I could have told them! So this has been the history of our lives, things don't move on due to stupid things like these.
I don't know what to do or think, it seems we are blocked by some negative energy or something. Please give me some advice. Thank you in advance.