36 year old virgin; abnormal papsmear; scared & taking the sit & wait approach
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|Sun, 09-16-2012 - 6:34pm|
I went to my 1st gyno visit to check on my first painful cyst that landed me in the ER 2 1/2 months ago. The 1st gyno visit I ever had I had my first papsmear and this cold unfeeling male specialist with a godlike complex tells me my test came back with "normal cells" but with high risk HPV. He tehn told me over the phone to make an ppt in 3 months to re do another papsmear since my cells are normal but to montior the HPV status on my report. Well when I went back to see him again a 2nd time, I gently looked at my gyno the 1st one ever in my life at the follow up visit & sonogram to check on my cyst that could it be possible that my abnormal papsmear was made or reported in error by the lab. OMG how dare I question this gyno's expertise god forbid, that I asked if this test was made in error.
I am a virgin, I do not masturbate, I do not use any toys down there, did I repeat I do not have a bf which mean I have no oral sex of any kind & no intercourse of any sorts with anyone. How does 36 year old NUN like my self end up with HPV & have a gyno accusing me that there is no other way that test could have picked up HPV when CLEARLY I told him I am NOT sexually active in any way not even with myself. This gyno was an old fashion jackass who would not let me get a word in edgewise.
Should I wait till 3 months later to get another papsmear test with a brand new female gyno since this male gyno left a bad taste in my mouth & practically scolded me for not knowing about any of this stuff & scaring me by saying I may have cancer even though my cells on the test came back all normal??? I read shaving/inflammation or irritation like yeast infection can pick up & mask a test that's highly sensitive like a papsmear to read HPV as well. But the nurse who sonogramed my cyst this past saturday at my 2nd visit quietly nudged me & said the test may well be made or test in error, she said definitely a screw up on our or the labs part & kind of walked away from me cause she saw me sweating beads.
Would it be wise to get another papsmear test so soon, cause I had this papsmear test done about 3 weeks or so ago??
Something is screaming at me to wait the lousy 3 months which would be around december & get papsmeared by a new female gyno cause this 1st one humiliated me & left me nerve wracked with guilt the jerk. Why are specialist such unfeeling monsters. I get your all overworked & overbooked with patients but have a heart & treat us like human beings even on your bad days :-(.
Does anyone else have a similar story like me? Or has gone through this type of stuff?? many thanks
Thanks for helping me out & listening to my plight.