Too small to safely have a baby?
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|Tue, 03-20-2012 - 12:47pm|
I am 24, and last night my bf and I had the baby discussion. We have been together 3 years this coming July, living together since 2010, and know marriage is in our future.It's just a matter of when he is ready. Well last night he asked me what I would think if he asked me to stop taking the pill. (I've been on the pill since I was 15) He said its something hes been thinking about lately, and he knows I am the one he wants to settle down with and be with forever. He said he may not be ready to say I do, but he doesn't believe in a broken home, so marriage is definite.We both are fine with having a child before marriage.I brought up finances and he reminded me,he has a good paying ,stable job and I would recieve mat leave starting at 6 months along in the pregnancy, then a year after the baby is born. Well we aren't planning anything for the immediate future, and my main worry above all else is my size!!