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Thu, 07-25-2013 - 6:14pm

i have now lost almost 70lbs but still fat comments are worse then ever!!! i am watching ppl who have lost way way less getting all the good comments while i can't stand hearing fata$$, fatso, thunderthighs, sloppy/fat i weigh about 142 and ppl mistake me for a person who weighs about 200 or more up 2like 400lbs my mother told me she is embarassed to be seen with me bc i am 2fat, they think im obese! i really gets me down when this is all i hear all day long every day!

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Thu, 07-25-2013 - 6:15pm
also I get told 2lose weight. like duh I already did
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Thu, 07-25-2013 - 7:53pm

It must be really difficult to have your efforts go unnoticed.  Losing weight can be a very difficult process and I'm sorry that you are having to deal with people who are being disrespectful to you. 

It's one thing to be concerned about someone's health but name calling and being disrespectful shouldn't happen.

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Fri, 07-26-2013 - 9:52am

ppl just tell me i need 2lose 70 more lbs and that i could weigh o and i still b fat.

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Tue, 07-30-2013 - 3:55pm

You need to find some more positive people in your life.  If these are family members, that makes it difficult.  Try to ignore their comments.  If they think they are not effecting you, maybe they will stop.  

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Thu, 08-01-2013 - 7:24pm
its more strangers now.
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Mon, 08-05-2013 - 3:09pm

That's a big difference that you're talking about though. Just a thought, but are you still dressing like you did prior to losing the weight? I tend to dress bigger than I should and it definitely throws people off.

The name calling is awful though.

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Sun, 08-11-2013 - 3:36pm
i got rid of all the clothes i wore when i was bigger, and if i wear a tighter shirt they still say things and if i wear bigger clothes they do it no matter what i wear.