they think i eat to much

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they think i eat to much
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Wed, 10-09-2013 - 5:25pm

how do u deal with ppl who think u eat to much , call u a little oinker, big pig, and pig?

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Registered: 09-23-2010
Thu, 10-10-2013 - 2:02pm

I honestly wouldn't associate with them anymore, at all. AT ALL. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice... 

I'm sorry you're being treated this way. My advice is to distance yourself as much as you can. If it's immediate family, you really have to figure something out. Either tell them to stop outright, or distance yourself even from them. It's bullying and it's abuse. {{{hugs}}}


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Sat, 10-12-2013 - 7:04pm

i don't know why ppl treat me so badly i really try so so hard to be a good nice person and all i get is called names told im a b....and constantlymake fun of my clothes all day every single day and has been for yrs and yrs and yrs and my shoes/socks and how i look from the chin up and they pretty much make funof everything i have this is all strangers and when were eating out ppl say things thinking i can't hear but i can im tired of being call a b....,pig,hog,bigazz,oinker and hearing them moo when i walk by.i have lost nearly 70lbs.but yet i hear ur a bigpig

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Fri, 10-18-2013 - 3:23pm

I can't fathom something like this happening — even if you were 500 pounds, I can't imagine why complete strangers, let alone family and friends, would make these types of comments. What type of city/town do you live in? Is it a small town? I'm just dumbstruck. :(

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Fri, 10-18-2013 - 5:19pm

it is a very small town, yes

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Wed, 11-06-2013 - 8:27pm

ok so the same comments are still being said big oinker,pig,big pig, and honestly i do not overeat everywhere i go

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Wed, 11-06-2013 - 8:29pm
i mean i don't overeat, but these comments happen everywhere i am