Friday early morning - HELLO!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-1999
Friday early morning - HELLO!
Fri, 01-20-2012 - 12:35am


A quick HELLO from the deep........

I'm still alive, but living a new life.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2008
Fri, 01-20-2012 - 10:07am
Oh lil what a spot to be in. I hope you can find some peace and keep up with everything. I will be thinking of you!
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2007
Fri, 01-20-2012 - 5:45pm
<<>> Sounds like you're going through a really hard time. Sometimes in life you just have to take life on day at a time. Try to remember to take care of yourself, even if it's just a small effort each day.


empty purse

Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Fri, 01-20-2012 - 6:42pm
Oh gosh, so sorry to hear you were pressured into this. I am not a caretaker, either. And unless you were really close, it has got be uncomfortable.

Hang in there and do what you can for yourself. ((((hugs))))

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2009
Sat, 01-21-2012 - 2:56am
Dear Little...

Please insist that others help out...
some people try to get away with doing nothing and you have to push push push...believe me I know from situations in the past

Big Hug,
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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-02-2011
Sat, 01-21-2012 - 5:13pm

I agree with Duke: other people have to help out. You'll go nuts if you keep doing this without a break.

Sorry to hear that you're combatting debt and decreased income on top of that. You're in a bad situation, and you'll be worn down in spirit if nothing changes. In turn that will make your financial situation look so much worse. You'd need to avoid that, and one way is to make people practice a bit of fairness in sharing the burden of caregiving.

This probably doesn't help much, but I find it easier ot keep track of my credit card payments online. I get an email reminder every time a payment is due.