Hi ladies, I'm new here and need some advice and support.
Hi cinnamon rose, welcome. so sorry to hear all the stress and sleepless nights you are going through.
Does your BF know the extent of your financial troubles? If not, I would sit down together and go over the bills and show him the reason for needing assisstance, and needing him to participate in helping to get it.
Is it possible for the two of you to work full time, but opposite shifts? so, you can continue to care for your children at home, but have 2 fuill time paychecks coming in? if not, is it possible for you to work overtime, get a second job? Even if it's only temporary? I also suggest going through all the stuiff you have at home......Can you have a yard sale? Have jewelry you can sell, esp. gold.
If you'd like to post ypur income and bills here, it's nice sometimes to have different points of view take a look, see if there are places you can cut back.
Most importantly, hang in there, don't lose hope. You can get out of this!
Welcome to the board.
sorry you are going thru such a tuff time right now.