A humble I'm still among the living post

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Registered: 03-23-1998
A humble I'm still among the living post
Mon, 02-06-2012 - 8:45pm

Hi everyone -- all you oldies will know me...everyone new -- welcome it's a great board.

I just thought I would come back "home" and let you all know that I haven't fallen off the face of the Earth but just in a very low spot.

It was finally decided that we needed to take the bankruptcy plunge and I'm having a hard time emotionally with that as I struggled for a long time to not have it come to that but the mortgage company forced our hand and hopefully it will be the right decision (man I wish I had a crystal ball at times).

On the good news front -- DH is working now with a great job -- almost what he was making way back in 2003 when life hit us upside the head which is why it stinks to have to file now that we could pay but no one would work with us during the unemployment so we can't catch up.

Becky - Mom to Carolyn (17), Aaron (15), Kyle (11) & Luke (8)
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Registered: 10-09-1999
Tue, 02-07-2012 - 10:17am

Hi Becky, so glad to hear from you.

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Registered: 11-14-2008
Tue, 02-07-2012 - 11:22am

Hi Becky,

Glad you dropped in. I hope you get some closure from all of this and can move on. You are such a positive person and I know you can handle it.

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Registered: 07-24-1997
Tue, 02-07-2012 - 3:14pm

Hi Becky.

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Registered: 08-29-2006
Tue, 02-07-2012 - 11:45pm

Hi Becky,

Thank you for sharing.

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Registered: 07-06-2003
Wed, 02-08-2012 - 2:25pm

Hi Becky,


"It is said that life has its peaks and valleys.  The challenge is to accept them equally and experience them

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Registered: 10-01-2008
Thu, 02-09-2012 - 1:16pm

Hey Beckly!


"Patience is the best remedy for every trouble"- Plautus

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Registered: 08-25-2006
Fri, 02-10-2012 - 11:50am
Welcome back! I remember your mortgage struggles.

Somehow, everything always works out one way or the other. Hugs...

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Registered: 11-15-2011
Mon, 02-20-2012 - 7:55pm

HI, Becky,

I'm glad you checked in, too...you will remember me as gheatherr.