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|Wed, 03-07-2012 - 9:28pm|
Hi everyone, I haven't had a chance to post a lot, mainly due to 3 kids but especially our slow internet.
Things are going well. We caught up with all of our bills due to my leave with our taxes. We were also able to pay down a big chunk on our bathroom loan and it now stands at 4000 which we are trying to get rid of by July. Lastly we qualify for a program to update the windows on our house due to lead and were able to pay our portion of 2500 with our taxes. I am pretty excited about the new windows and am so thankful that we will not have to do all of that work ourselves. Things with my H are going well we are still seeing the therapist and it seems that he is doing the work that he needs to do so far. So, I feel at peace with that.
My question is I was wondering after seeing Marian's post about her husband passing (which my heart goes out to you) what are peoples reccomendations about ways to prepare for the unexpected loss of a spouse. It freaks me out to hear about everything that you have had to deal with. So, any reccomendations would be great. Also, we have the same car situation that they are both in his name. How difficult is that to change? I know that I should really take this serious and research on my own the laws for my state but thought that I would pick your brains also since it will probably be helpful for a lot of people to read.
Thanks in advance!