I'll preface this with saying I feel like a liar.
That is why I don't add mine up.
That is a good idea... If I take the cars out of the total it reduces by $43,000.
Its funny how people's minds work differently. I had to total EVERYTHING before I was really motivated to make a change. If it helps you, just break it up into smaller goal items. Sounds like your DH isn't exactly on the same page as you, though. Have you talked with him about how you feel about your debts (I will look back at your pp, because I don't remember specifics)?
The credit cards are the motivational kicker here... The amount of credit card debt is equal to half DH's yearly income.
Sounds like your DH needs at least a short-term attitude adjustment.