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| Mon, 08-02-2004 - 8:11pm |
3 months tomorrow that we lost you. I miss him so much. I still have all of his stuff,all washed and downstairs. It is so sad to look at it but I know someday I will get another and he would be glad to "share" My beautiful white kitty,why did you leave us...


I still have a hard time not blaming myself for T's death. She quit going to the bathroom and eventually quit eating. My hubby noticed she was loosing weight when he went to pick her up. T would cuddle with me but did like it when I picked her up. It's impossible to notice who's using the litter boxes with three cats. T developed a blockage and was making progress when I saw her the night before. I can still remember getting the phone call the next day that she had passed away. I was not expecting it since the vet had said she was getting better the night before. It took my hubby months to get me to stop blaming myself.
My cat's litter boxes are in the basement. Now everytime the boys start meowing in the basement I go running downstairs to see why.
The loss will always hurt and all I can say is to try to remember the good times. If you decide to get another cat make sure you allow yourself enough time to grieve. I still have 2 adorable cats that I love but they are not a replacement for T.
Edited 8/2/2004 10:43 pm ET ET by tegato73
{{{{{Chris}}}}} I know what you are going through.
I can't believe it is 3 months already.