Pet Loss, RIP Morris <3

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Registered: 04-26-2012
Pet Loss, RIP Morris <3
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Thu, 04-26-2012 - 7:36am

Myself and my partner bought a little 3 year old chihuaha a few months ago and have just suffered a tragic loss. His name was Morris and he was the most beautiful little boy I have ever seen. Being in a long term lesbian relationship, Morris really did complete our little family and really was like our baby. He had been to stay at my partners mums house, as we were in the process of moving in to a larger home with a garden, especially for him. Yesterday afternoon my partners mum called me with the news. Our little boy had been playing in the garden and tried to get out under the fence, got stuck and strangled himself to death. I collapsed to the floor as soon as she told me, and my heart broke even further as i had to tell my partner. All i can think is what if we had just brought him home and not left him there, what if we had just taken his collar off, why couldnt someone have found him sooner. Ive been back and forth over and over the 'what ifs' and blaming myself constantly. My partner feels exactly the same way but seems to be coping even worse. She saw him as a replacement for a child which we cannot have. We move into our new house on Monday which was meant for him, and im so scared that its not going to feel like a home without him. Weve saved for so long to build our lives together, after 2 years in shared housing this was meant to be our fresh start, and it couldnt have been worse timing. More than anything i just wanted to tell my story, and welcome any advice or comforting words which may help the grieving process along. We have been offered a new dog for whenever we are ready, but im scared things won't be the same and i wont be able to love the next one in the same way. Morris was an ex show dog, he was stunning, cheeky and had more love to give than i ever thought possible, i would give anything to have him back in my arms and licking my face. I feel weak, exhausted, and lost. Someone please help!

Community Leader
Registered: 04-19-2008
Sun, 04-29-2012 - 2:17pm

{{{^Morris^}}}
Such a beautiful furchild.

Please do your best to send your Mums a BridgeKiss from the Other Side.

 

 

With my heart,
 
Community Leader
Registered: 04-19-2008
Sun, 04-29-2012 - 2:15pm

{{{^Morris'^ Mums}}}  Welcome to our little corner of the web, but I am so very sorry for the reason why.  Please accept my sincere sympathy for the tragic passing of your beloved little ^Morris^.  (with his beautiful new angel ^wings^)  Your gorgeous little furchild is obviously a very special soul, to have touched your hearts so deeply.  {{{gentle hugs}}}

Oh mummyslittleboy, PLEASE don't allow that horrid guilt monster to get to you.  Being loving Mums, we always, always blame ourselves.  The ... what if's, should I's, and why didn't I's can torture the most loving souls into insanity.  {{{hugs}}} Please don't blame yourself.  This was a horrific accident, where no one is to blame.  :smileysad:  I honestly can't tell you why things happen the way they do, but perhaps once your beautiful ^Morris^ finally learned what real love is, (vs being a show dog) his sweet spirit was able to cross over to the Rainbow Bridge.  Most likely, nothing could have prevented this from happening, because it was his time.  :smileysad:

I hope you'll be able to stay with us, and let us know how you are doing.  This journey towards healing is such a long and painful process, and we all just have to take it one horrible day at a time.  Please know that we'll always be here for you, just as all our furangels are now with ^Morris^ at the Rainbow Bridge.

Once again, please accept my sincere sympathy for the passing of your beautiful boy.  The earth certainly became a little less bright, the day he earned his ^wings^.

 

With my heart,
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2008
Thu, 04-26-2012 - 9:29am
Morris's Mom, (((((Hugs))))) I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-26-2012
Thu, 04-26-2012 - 7:38am

Morris