One month today :(

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Registered: 05-22-2008
One month today :(
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Fri, 06-13-2008 - 2:37pm

Well, I has been one month today.

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Sun, 06-22-2008 - 6:12pm
Chancey's mom.....Chancey is one handsome gentleman...He is very regal..... Notice how I say "is". Chance is still with you....he is in your heart..and I am positive that he hears you and knows how much you love him.... One month is such a short time....I was still numb at Sammy's one month anniversary.... Take your time to heal, and feel all the emotions.... You'll know when the time is right to get a new fur baby.... Chance will let you know....For now you have your other fur babies to help you mourn and to console you. I am sure they are mourning in their own way for Chance.... Chance has earned his new angel wings and he is patiently waiting for the day that he will see you again...That day will come......but for now...just listen to your heart...he is there.... Gentle hugs....Eleni-Sam's mom.
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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 4:11pm
Sammy's mom....
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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 7:56pm
Chance's mom.... Chance is in your dreams because he is trying to give you a bridge kiss....he is telling you he is ok.......that's wonderful......It has been almost seven months since my Sammy went to the Rainbow Bridge and although I don't cry as much, the ache that I feel in my heart for some reason is stronger now than it was the first couple of weeks after she earned her angel wings.... It is such a physical ache...unlike anything I have ever felt....and the sobs come at really odd times...I'll be fine one minute and something will make me think of her....and I'm off... I don't think the tears will ever dry...even years from now....maybe they will be bittersweet, but they will still be there.. I know exactly what you mean about being afraid that you will forget something... I'm not a big video taker so I don't have any video of Sammy... I have some pictures but not many... I do have her ashes and some fur that I had snipped from her on that horrible day....someday I am sure they will comfort me....but for now touching her fur makes the ache unbearable.....You are fortunate that you have a friend that understands your pain....that's important..... Everyone I am close to thinks I'm nuts...so I have come to rely on this board to help me....Please know I will be thinking of you and your handsome boy Chance....but find some
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 5:12pm

I know it its been a few days since you posted this, but I wanted to let you know your Chancey will always know how much you loved and cared for him. I lost my Gordo (cat) of 13 years, on June 21st 2007. His anniversary just passed. I have had

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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 2:26pm

Hi Eleni ~ I hope this message finds you in good spirits.

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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 2:56pm
Hi Susan.... Thanks for your email address. I will definitely write.... It's great that you got all your pictures together of Chance, and lucky that you have so many....I only have a few of Sammy. As far as moving, I can totally understand your feelings...I probably would feel the same way....although I am sure that Chance's spirit will be with you no matter where you go...... Whenever you feel Chance near you...that's a bridge kiss....or when you sit outside and hear the branches like you said and you think of Chance....that's a bridge kiss.....Chance is trying to tell you that he is ok...... it's funny that when their pain ends ours begins.....but that's the price we have to pay for unconditional love.......Please know that I will be thinking of you and I will email you...you may email as well at leni1013@aol.com.