hate the taste of cum

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hate the taste of cum
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Tue, 09-10-2002 - 11:20am

hate the taste of cum


I'm 44 years old, we have 1 child of 11 years. I've been with my husband for 16 years. His sex drive is high, mine is non existent (it never used to be, we were always at it). I find sex a real chore, and I never initiate it now. My husband has a few a gripes about our sex life. 1. it's now perfunctuary. 2. infrequent 3. he always seem to make the move 4. I won't let him cum in my mouth. I will suck him to the point of him cumming then I pull off at the last minute. I would dearly love to get over this, but I hate the taste of cum and it makes me gag. I've tried the food-wrap trick over the end of his penis, but he finds that a turn off, and I have to agree with him on that. He tries to be patient but this is driving an ever deeper wedge in our sex life. Plus my Libido is so low, I wish I had a sex drive to match his. I do love him so, but I find myself dreading the whole of the sex act. Am I becoming frigid? We do talk things through and I say to him that I take his comments on board, and that's it. The one thing I would love to get over is my fear of him cumming in my mouth, because of the taste. Please help!

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Tue, 09-10-2002 - 11:46am

possibilities for better taste


As for you being fridged the lose of sex drive does not make one frigid! As for even the use of the word try to avoid it all together. It tends to have anger attached to it in some uses. You are just changing and eveoling as an older woman. If you still love your husband try to look back on all the things that you remember as hot or alluring to you. What are your fantasies now and how can you bring your husband into them. As for the taste of his semen, will that has alot to do with diet and DNA. There are several new products out on the market for making semen better tasting, one of which is seminex. I also hear from girl friends that celery works as well. The first thing your husband needs to do is understand you though. Wanting and truly needed are diferent things and if the taste of him turns you off then why would he attach love to something that kills the turn on or keeps you from performing oral sex. As a man I could care less if you swallow I am just greatful and in love with the women for even doing that. It matters not where the end results land, just that there was an end result. And I believe that goes for men performing on women.