Awesome guy, not so awesome sex vs. awesome sex, not so awesome guy.
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|Thu, 09-12-2013 - 8:01am|
I'm in my early 30's, but haven't dated very much so I feel inexperienced. I have been hung up on two guys I've dated in the past which has gotten me thinking a lot lately. I'm curious which relationship would end up better in others opinions:
really awesome guy, not so awesome sex or amazing sex, not so awesome guy
I know no one is perfect and I really am very easy going. There are a lot of good qualities in both guys and there are some annoying things in both guys. Considering I'm not that into sex, but these guys definitely are, which one would be more successful to be in a relationship with? Do you think it could work if i had absolutely no desire to have sex with the one, but loved to be around him in every other way? Or Is it better to have some amazing sex (and actually want it at times) and just deal with the occasional put downs and irritating behavior at times? (As far as put downs, he sometimes tries to be funny but isn't, not intentional verbal abuse.)
Also, do you think a realtionship can work if you can't stand his friends?