Friend problems- expects my boyfriend to call & visit Please Help!!

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Registered: 08-08-2011
Friend problems- expects my boyfriend to call & visit Please Help!!
Mon, 08-08-2011 - 7:08pm

Hi all my problem is I my boyfriend, friend and I have known each for a long time.(my boyfriend and her live in the same region while I live 90Miles away) we all used to work together and became friends through work. My friend worked there a year before I began and therefore knows my boyfriend a year longer than me. My friend and I have since left the workplace but all 3 of us have maintained close friendship. Until recently!!!

My boyfriend used to visit her before him and I started dated so did I. She left home, was alone, pregnant and found herself a single mum. I was supportive and there at her back and call I even came out of work to be at the hospital on the day of delivery.

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Registered: 10-28-2005

Hi! I'm sorry to hear you are having problems with your friend, I found a few message boards that might be able to help you a little more than I can. I hope you'll check them out to see if they fit your situation.

The Dating Game

Ask the Relationship Saver

Dealing With Difficult People

Is It Meant to Be?

Problem Solving for Couples

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Your friend doesn't sound like someone that I'd want my boyfriend being too close to either. I hope it works out okay for you!