Friend problems- expects my boyfriend to call & visit Please Help!!

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Registered: 08-08-2011
Friend problems- expects my boyfriend to call & visit Please Help!!
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Mon, 08-08-2011 - 7:08pm

Hi all my problem is I my boyfriend, friend and I have known each for a long time.(my boyfriend and her live in the same region while I live 90Miles away) we all used to work together and became friends through work. My friend worked there a year before I began and therefore knows my boyfriend a year longer than me. My friend and I have since left the workplace but all 3 of us have maintained close friendship. Until recently!!!

My boyfriend used to visit her before him and I started dated so did I. She left home, was alone, pregnant and found herself a single mum. I was supportive and there at her back and call I even came out of work to be at the hospital on the day of delivery.

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Registered: 10-28-2005

Hi! I'm sorry to hear you are having problems with your friend, I found a few message boards that might be able to help you a little more than I can. I hope you'll check them out to see if they fit your situation.

The Dating Game
http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/The-Dating-Game/ct-p/iv-rldategame

Ask the Relationship Saver
http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/Ask-the-Relationship-Saver/ct-p/iv-rlrelationsh

Dealing With Difficult People
http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/Dealing-With-Difficult-People/ct-p/iv-cadifficult

Is It Meant to Be?
http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/Is-It-Meant-to-Be/ct-p/iv-rlmrright

Problem Solving for Couples
http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/Problem-Solving-for-Couples/ct-p/iv-rlcouplescou


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Your friend doesn't sound like someone that I'd want my boyfriend being too close to either. I hope it works out okay for you!