Help!! Father in law being inappropriate!!
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|Wed, 07-23-2014 - 1:27am|
So my father in law just moved in about 6 months ago with my boyfriend my 2yr old son & myself. I always kinda of distanced myself from him or kept conversations light between us to so about 4 days ago he comes home & starts telling me that he went to a nude camp which I thought was kinda weird to tell me since we don't have that kind of relationship to tell each other things like that. So he keeps on talking about it & then goes in to that I need to go & try it out & I'm definitely not one for stuff like that. So he keeps asking if I would ever go & I say no & he keeps pressing on why not & I say I'm not comfortable doing that stuff & showing my body to strangers cuz I'm not comfortable doing that cuz 1. I have stretch marks 2. I have cellulite on my thighs & 3. I'm just not ok doing that sort of stuff. & he still keeps asking the say question then he finally comes & sits next to me on the couch asking to see where so I point over my clothes to the problem areas & he then lift my shirt showing belly & lifts my capris pant legs up to show my thighs then starts inspecting to see the areas. I was very scared he did that cuz he just got out of prison for apparently doing the same thing to his daughter which I didn't knw the full story until after this. To scary me even more he start asking me if I shave cuz to go to a nude camp u must shave everything. So he looks down the front of my pants to see if I shave my vagina & then as I get up he sticks his hands down my pants to grab my butt under the panties to see how firm it is then try's to touch my boobs I said no then got away. Then he kept saying not to tell anyone about 5 times. He was aLso telling me about his private areas like he shaves everything & how long his penis is disgusting. I went outside to try & get away luckily my bf showed up from work about 10mins later. I told him about it in private cuz I was truly scared for my life I had no idea what he could've done to me or my son since we were alone with him. So my bf confronts him 2 days later & he claims he didn't think he was doing anything wrong & claimed he meant nothing by it but honestly u just came out of prison for the same thing how could u not knw it's wrong. He threw the whole guilt trip to his son (my boyfriend ) cuz if he leaves he goes to the streets but honestly I shouldn't be in fear the rest of my life or have to hide in my room or out of my apartment forever right. Am I wrong to feel this way cuz I have nobody else to tell besides my bf & he seems to believe it wasn't intentional & thinks I should give him amother chance but I'm so sick & can't even come out my room I'm not even going to be stayinh home the next couple days. am I wrong to feel this way?