Husband ordered ED Pills!

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Registered: 01-11-2001
Husband ordered ED Pills!
Fri, 08-01-2014 - 2:14pm

I need some advice - I am 29 and my husband is 35.  We were just married about 3 1/2 months ago.  I'm happy with our sex life - we usually have sex at least a few times a week.  I sometimes feel like I try to initiate sex more than he does.  He doesn't last more than a few minutes in bed, but that is perfectly fine with me - I don't like to have sex for much longer than that anyways.  I recently found out that he has been trying to order Viagra or Cialis or other erectile dystfunction drugs through a website.  He does not have a RX for these.  What bothers me even more is that I know he watches porn on tv and on the internet.  He is never honest about how often he does this, but I am guessing that it's probably every day. He knows that I hate that he watches porn.  I have never thought that he had any problems getting erections with me, so I don't understand why he feels he would need these drugs.  Maybe he thinks he will last longer in bed, but I never expressed any disappointment with our sex life.  Is it because he is so reliant on porn that he feels the need to take these pills so he can watch porn when he gets home from work, then still have sex with me later that night?  Could he be cheating?  Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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Registered: 06-16-1998
Fri, 08-01-2014 - 9:46pm

You might want to repost this in the iVillage Love and Sex section where they have some relationships boards. It would probably be seen by more people there than on this board.

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Registered: 01-11-2001
Fri, 08-01-2014 - 9:52pm

Thanks! I'm new to this and I have no clue how to do that.

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Registered: 01-20-2004
Mon, 08-04-2014 - 10:46am

Hi & Welcome! As said above, you'll definitely get more responses if you post this on one of the marriage boards. I recommend the Problem Solving for Couples board or The Secrets of Married Sex board. Just click on one of the boards and then click on start discussion.

Best of luck to you!

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