Infidelity

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Registered: 09-24-2013
Infidelity
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Tue, 09-24-2013 - 11:38pm

I just had my suspisions of my husbands infidelity confirmed by listening to a conversation he was having with a friend via Butt-dial.  He has admitted to SEVERAL Affairs.  I am devistated.  He has been seeing one woman for 10 years and she is an employee of ours.  Of coarse, I fired her.  I am a mess and need advise in the worst way.  We have two children together.  A daughter 16 and a son, 9, and I three grown children from a previous marriage.  How do I do this?  I am so confused.  Friends and family ALL insist I'd be a complete fool to stay.  I love him.  UGH, Help...

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 09-25-2013 - 2:12am

  Do not make hasty decisions.  I have been through this but it took me 24 hrs to burn out.  It turned out I made a very good choice.  I am hard.  I am also wise in the ways of the world and a a lover is not a big a deal as some would make it.  The idea to run right out and leave is in my opinion stupid.  There are a lot of things to really soul search.  Too many get a divorce but are never happy about it .  You are the only one who can make yourself happy anyway. 

Goldfish

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Registered: 01-20-2004
Wed, 09-25-2013 - 1:34pm

Hi there,

I'm sorry you're dealing with this. You may want to post on our Betrayed Spouses board. They'll have the best insight and suggestions for you.

Good luck!

Erin
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