my affair ended four days ago.
I'm so new here this isn't funny but I KWIM. I always had a lover & I would freak if he couldn't come over after SO left. So, YES I wanted him to contact me. I was always on my phone as we used texts. However I had no clue that I would run off with him & be together to this day. Are you definately staying with your husband? Sometimes shaking things up can be oh so positive.
If he's not contacting you & there isn't like, a military reason I'd say He's Just Not That Into You. Why did the affair end??