my boyfriend won't climax!?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-15-2014
my boyfriend won't climax!?
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Sun, 06-15-2014 - 11:07am

I need help! My boyfriend and I finally decided to get physical. We have been together for a little under a year. I can sit there blowing him or giving him a hand job for over thirty minutes and he 1) won't cum, and 2) won't stay hard long enough for me to quickly hop ontop and put him in. I have no idea what I am doing wrong. I have tried being naked, being soft, being aggressive, even talking dirty while this is happening. I really need help, a lot of my friends think I waited to long and he is sleeping with someone on the side.

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Registered: 06-02-2008
Sun, 06-15-2014 - 4:27pm

It might not have anything to do with what you are doing. 

Some males experience delayed ejaculation. 

If he isn't able to maintain an erection there could be some type of circulation issue so physiologically it might help to get checked out to see if there are any health conditions (or medications) interfering.   If all systems check on a physical level, then it is important to look at what might be going on emotionally / psychologically.