cant get my wife to have orgasism

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Registered: 11-23-2004
cant get my wife to have orgasism
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Wed, 01-26-2005 - 4:39pm
My wife and I have been married a long time , and I have tried alot of things to try to have her have consistant orgasisms , we have long foreplays, which she is very aroused, massages , I even have her masterbate herself while im stimulating her. but it doesnt happen , I have tried different positions , oral sex has worked a few times but again not consistantly. She has told me that when she uses the shower massage it seems to work pretty consistant..kinda hard to duplicate that. Suggestions? Intercourse, Ive tried every position , her favorite is her on top , but still mixed results...getting frustrated
my old girlfriends never had a problem....even tried romantic weekends away to feel more relaxed , a little wine...other ideas?