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abuse and MLC
| Wed, 11-09-2005 - 7:16am |
Hi,
I posted here before and I am still struggeling with my husbands emotional abuse but much wiser and stronger.
Lately my husbands abuse switched to more jokes and threats about getting a girlfriend and sleeping with somebody else and such.
I started wondering if maybe he suffers from Midle life crises as well as being abusive, can MLC make the abuse worse? did anyone in this board have to deal with MLC.
Abusers are people that want to stick to you because they get from you what they need to keep being abusive so does it mean that the threats are not real? is MLC for an abuser just a wannabe thing?
what do you think about this situation?

It sounds like he's just being cruel.
I wish i could leave him but I can't for now for many reasons, what I am going to do is get some counseling for myself, at least I will have a person to talk to which I do not have right now, I know it helps to talk and cry it all out.
I will like to learn more about detachement, do you know any good books or links about it?