Again

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Again
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Fri, 08-20-2004 - 4:23pm
He's at it again- he's mad at me now because I let my 18 y.o. ds move back in to go to college here- he tried to go away, but had some trouble and got homesick - he was coming home every weekend anyway - so I put an end to it. It's my house too - I certainly pay my share of the bills. DH is being a total ass - sorry, no other word, and I'm getting fed up with it. Giving me the "silent treatment". And it's our dd's 3 year bday this weekend - I've worked hard to give her a good party, and he's trying to ruin it like he did last year. I'm bound and determined he's not going to - I've said as much to him that he should just get over it and not ruin her weekend. He's selfish, insecure and downright mean sometimes. Thinks more of his material things than people - which I have no respect for. Jerk. There, thank you, now I feel better. ;) Going to be a rough weekend. Oh joy. I don't know why I put up with this crap except dd is nuts about him when he's not in one of his "moods".
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Registered: 11-12-2003
In reply to: chic45
Fri, 08-20-2004 - 4:50pm

Of course, it's the weekend when there's something important going on.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: chic45
Mon, 08-23-2004 - 12:53pm
Thank you for the response. He settled down - I guess saw what he was doing - and actually was a big help this weekend. He's upset about his son not calling at all now - that's not really his fault, and I would be upset too, but he can't take it out on us. I guess what's so hard, like some others on this board, is that when it's good with him it's really good and I wish it could just stay like that all the time - he can be a loving, sensitive, caring person. Gee, can you tell we're in the honeymoon stage???!! Anyways, 3 y.o. dd did have a good bday party - her grandparents, aunt, cousin and even big brother showed up. She got a big girl bed, and lots of dolls - so she's happy for right now. Now if I can get ds settled - he likes school so far, but needs a new, used vehicle and finding a decent one for under $4000 takes some doing! Thanks again for responding - it helps knowing this board exists and that you're out there. Cindy