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Ahmed's_wife
| Sun, 07-11-2004 - 11:47pm |
Hi, hon.
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| Thu, 07-15-2004 - 12:19am |
Cajunharmony, Thank you so much for putting this information on here for me, i really appreciate it. I have heard of muslims' getting divorced for many different reasons, i just thought that it wasn't acceptable. He talks alot about the way things are where he is from and there, it is easy for the man to divorce a woman but not easy for the woman to initiate the divorce. I don't know what that has to do with here but i think of things like this and the reasons why things are this way. In his eyes this Is the way it is no matter where we live. Everytime we go to * he inquires about jobs from some of his friends that are in the same field. He applied last time we were there and even had an interview, he tells me that if they would pay him a little over half of the pay he gets here that we would move. I am scared of that. i think that would be a horrible move. When we are there i feel like he isnt himself, he doesnt confide in me, he isnt romantic and loving and most of all he is more cruel than kind. i've cried a lot praying that the offer is not enough that he accepts. I know its wrong to wish this because it is selfish but i feel like i can not help it. i begged him to please think seriously about it with the right offer or not. i'm not trying to have a pity party for myself i'm trying to stay upbeat but i just want to curl up and cry. thanks again for the nfo.
