AlwaysGardenia, JJ_25, Tia24 and Pink???

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AlwaysGardenia, JJ_25, Tia24 and Pink???
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Wed, 08-18-2004 - 6:39pm
I really am curious about a few people, AlwaysGardenia, JJ_25, Tia24 and Pinkdandelion (who I think changed her screen name but I forgot to what).I'm hardly ever on the boards anymore, because I rarely have internet access, but when I do, I always check in for old familiar names. I just was worried about you all because I know I got out of my abusive relationship, but I never heard whether or not you all got out. Is everything okay? Did you ever leave that horrible man JJ? I pray you have found some peace and safety. I always think about you. Gardenia, did you ever move last fall like you were planning or are you still trying to survive the torture your DH was putting you and your DD through? Tia, how is nursing school? I hope that after I have this baby, I can finally get myself on that track too. I need to get my life together now that I'm getting over the EX. And Pink, how are you doing and your two little boys. I'm going to be having a boy myself soon, and thankfully its not going to be raised by you know who. I pray you all are on your road to healing and moving on, like I am. We deserve it. I will check in later, and see if anyone has heard from you all. Take care and HUGE HUGS!

Love,

Uwi

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Wed, 08-18-2004 - 7:32pm

Hey Uwi -


When last seen, Gardenia had got out and she's back in SoCal.

CL-Blueliner4

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Fri, 08-20-2004 - 12:13pm
I'm ashamed to say that since I found another job recently, I've put it on the back burner again. I feel somewhat safer though that everything will be okay, because my Uncle recently told me he would help me with some of my bills once the baby is born and that was my main concern was how I would survive. And with EX telling me he would take care of me and stuff, I was having to keep telling myself that I have to figure out another plan of survival before I stoop that low. And just out the blue my Uncle tells me he'll help support me, therefore, I don't and won't feel desperate enough to go back to EX for support. I really don't think EX is going to move back here anyway, he'll be in LA and I'll be here in Phoenix, as long as we are not in the same city, I feel safe to live my life and get stronger for me and my baby.
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Fri, 08-20-2004 - 1:02pm

Well, that's good news on the money front, but believe me, trying to find counseling to deal with everything you went through (and it was a lot) will be so beneficial for you and ultimately your peanut.

CL-Blueliner4

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Mon, 12-27-2004 - 8:42pm

Hey Sweet Uwi,

I have thought of you many, many times and kept thinking you were still in Georgia! So sweet and like you to be thinking about others!! Oh my word did you have that baby boy yet? What is his name? I had no idea you were even pregnant. I am saying some prayers for you and your little one this evening. How time flies with a new year coming in just a few days. Amazing isn't it?! I do hope you take Blueliner's advice and somehow get some counciling for yourself. What you went through was horrific and will stay with you a lifetime. Use that experience wisely. It will remind you on just how hard you worked to get out of that situation and know you deserve to be loved in a respectful way. How is your mother and grandmother? I know you were close to them at one time. Can you talk to them about things? You are such a sweet thing and please know I always thought fondly of you. I still dream of the day when we can go on our shopping spree in LA together---LOL!! See, I didn't forget. Ok you wanted to know about me. Well I am still here doing the best I can for now. Things are tight financially now more than ever. Looking for work now. It's not been easy. Who wants to hire an over 40 fatty with emotional problems anyway? I am ok and the kids are doing alright for now. I'm doing the best I can for the moment.

I wish you a very Happy New Year Uwi!!! Please post when you had your little boy and what his name is won't you??!! Hugs and thank you for asking about us! :)

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 11:33pm

Hello, Ms. Pink!


Uwi, er...MOMMY Uwi posted an update upstairs at NB.

CL-Blueliner4