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| Mon, 02-06-2006 - 5:11pm |
Is it wrong to be upset when DH has a super bowl party and then right after the party he decides to go to his friend's house, leaving me to clean up? I set up and cleaned up and I am not even into footbalL! It was not my idea for the party to begin with. The party was okay. Lots of drinking. DH had his friend drive. I told him that he never takes me anywhere so I was upset that he was leaving me home alone. And I mean we don't go anywhere, not to dinner, not to the bar, no movie, no nothing, not even the store. He won't go. He told me-"and I never will take you anywhere".
Then he tells me he will be home in one hour and two hours later he still isn't home. I chat with my sister online and I told her about it. She said during the party-right after everyone left my dh said that his friend had a crush on me and my sister told him that I had told her about that jerk (the same one who was all over me a few weeks back). My dh then says that he would pay him to F me and then divorce me when I did it.
My sister thought he was joking but said that she isnt sure cause she doesnt know how to read my dh-hes hard to read. Now I am not only sad that he left me home when he never does things with me-I am livid that he would say such a thing because he knows I cant stand that jerk off. I called him at 1130, he tells me he will be home soon, I called back about 1200pm, he is so obviously wasted. I tell him what my sister said and he denied it. Um okay-she wouldnt lie. He got home 1-or a little before.
I havent spoken to him since he got home, I just got home from work and he is sleeping. So hung over. He took today off so he could party.
I wouldnt mind him going to his friends but include me, kwim? He never goes anywhere but work and home and never drinks and drive so thats good. He wouldnt even take us-me and the kids to hoome depot because he didnt want his car weighed down. @@
I'm just hurt that he would leave me home to clean up his party and not take me-I could come alright if I wanted to bring his daughter (whose mother was coming to get her) and my two kids who have school today. Could I come? Of course not. He knew this. I am angry that he would say such a horrible thing to my sister about me. I'm sure he doesnt even remember it. Aggh!
I am not talking to him when he finally falls out of bed. I have nothing to say to him.
Am I justified for feeling this way?

I don't know how to say this strongly enough, babe.
I didnt talk to him at all yesterday and I am thankful he is at work tonight. I think that is the only reason we have been married this long-that he works the swing shift so we dont see much of each until the weekend.
Today I came home at the normal time. Its Tuesday and my son goes to his Occpational Therapies on Tuesday. My DH takes us and drops us off on his way to work every Tuesday. My sister picks us up afterwards because she gets my other son from school on Tuesdays.
I came home at 155-he leaves at 2. I honestly had plan to get there by bus. I came in and he said to my son while looking at me-lets go.
While driving he was reckless as usual. He is very very aggressive when he drives. On a normal day he scares me with his driving, today was no exception. I said to him, are you trying to scare me to which he replied, maybe today I am. I said, just remember don't kill yourself while your trying to kill me.
I just dont know which way to turn.I dont think I ever will.