another question..

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another question..
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Fri, 04-20-2012 - 2:23am

I do feel like he is getting angrier and angrier. He does not do anything for DD..but she wouldn't come coz her stuff is there.

I am still doing everything . do you think it is a wise idea to get in and move her stuff and say you are not going in there any more? I feel she is hanging on for the "nicer" house and he is going to explode any day. I could get "hands off " with DD and tell her I can't help her until she starts living with me permanently.

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Fri, 04-20-2012 - 7:57am

If you are concerned for your dd's safety, then, OF COURSE, you need to go in and remove it to your home.

Mama Harmony

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Fri, 04-20-2012 - 1:34pm

harmony - you are spot right on as usual. You understand the whole situation so perfectly. Yes, that is what is going on. Yes, I started to be strong but my heart palpitates..I am taking anti-stress medication (the herbal kind) until my doc appt next week. I think why my heart skips beat is she resorts to "i will kill myself if you disrupt me to the point that my school suffers"..why why why why did i wait till the teen years.

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Fri, 04-20-2012 - 6:22pm

GAAAHHHHHHHH!

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Fri, 04-20-2012 - 6:27pm

I think it's perfectly normal to have "palpitations" if you're doing something you're not comfortable with.