Another Trait I Noticed

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Registered: 05-23-2004
Another Trait I Noticed
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Thu, 08-26-2004 - 10:47am
Here is another trait I noticed that is not usually listed, or maybe it is, and I just did not notice it.

1. Ever notice how the person who is doing the abusing, thinks, they are the person that should be your savior?? The two guys I left, I noticed, that while I was breaking up with them, and telling the reasons why, (which is a mistake, just leave) they'd always turn the tables, and then say, "I will help you" and "all you need is me" and blah blah blah.

2. Ever notice, how after a bitter wicked fight, (in my case, him calling ME abusive and degrading towards men) they continue to call and contact you as if nothing has happened, and it is business as usual.

I just broke up with my boyfriend after he started to act real controlling. What ensued was a bitter break up and fight, and him claiming that I abused HIM.

Finally I said, and not to argue, that yes, in your case, I abuse, and degrade men. You deserve better, this relationship is unhealthy, so stop calling me. Why do you keep callin me I am such a horrible person???????

I shut off my phones, and blocked his email. And I am never going to talk to him again. But isn't ironic? Isn't he the stupid one that keeps crawling back to me, after claiming I abused him?????


My nerves are still a little rattled, but each day, I feel better.


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Registered: 03-24-2003
Thu, 08-26-2004 - 1:42pm

Everything they accuse others of, they do themselves.

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