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Registered: 03-26-2003
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Mon, 03-13-2006 - 9:06pm

I am looking to go back and uncover as many of the past post I can. I have been posting on and off since I think 2003 or so. Even during my seperation. I'd like to go back and find those post and then see what I went through. How can I or is it to late? Are the post gone?

I don't stay mad and I think that is a problem. Even after this weekend and the BJ thing, I just get over it so easily and you know I know I shouldn't. I know its wrong. Is there a way to recover any of the old post under this same sn? Thanks!

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Registered: 10-31-2003
In reply to: visionseer
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 9:28am

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: visionseer
Wed, 03-15-2006 - 9:26am
Thank you! Looking back helps put things in perspective. I still am at a lost as to what to do or even how to go about doing it. What I need is some darn good advice. Advice I actually listen to and take. I listen to all the advice but taking it is hard to do. Why is that? I dont know what I am holding onto, if holding onto anything at all. What to do? What would "you all" do in my shoes, especially seeing how far back it goes. The end is no where in sight.
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Registered: 10-31-2003
In reply to: visionseer
Wed, 03-15-2006 - 9:36am
You are very welcome, I hope that re-reading your old posts and the old responses will be very helpful to you in your healing.
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Registered: 03-25-2002
In reply to: visionseer
Thu, 03-16-2006 - 11:32am

I've done this, too. I've looked back to find my first few posts. I printed them out. And it really did help put things in perspective.

What to do? My two cents is... the first step is admitting you are not in control, and that you need help. Help from friends, family, therapists, support groups. Help from anywhere and everywhere you can get it. Asking for help can be the hardest, because we have to admit that are life is out of control. So great job posting here and asking for help. Not just advice or hearing what others think but HELP. I pray your heart will open up to the support offered here. That God will send you people and help from all over. That your eyes will just open up to help and then, the things you need to do will become very clear. Many blessing to you.

Hugs,
Loonybunny

P.S. Help is all around. I've found in my journey beyond abuse, that help is everywhere. I just needed to ask, needed to share with others my needs (needed to start thinking about My needs for a change), and share with others how I felt. And help came in buckets and overflowing. I pray the same things will happen for you.