Happy Birthday!!!! It's a day to celebrate Birthdays of very special people. I spent the day with one of my dearest friends. It's her birthday today too.
Here's a story that makes me remember "there, but for the grace of God, go I" and the grass is NOT greener on the other side. I've known my friend for over 7 years. About four years ago her hubby of 28 years, director of Music at the Baptist Church they attended, announced that he's gay! He shaved his head, bought a Harley and some leather pants, thanked her for raising their two boys,(now 24&26) moved in with Derk (the jerk) and has been trying to screw her over since. Old fashioned values (man heads the household) run amuck turns into emotional, psychological, financial abuse. I went through that with her and she went through my hell of the last couple years of my marriage, this separation and attempted divorce. Oh, the revenge we've fantasized over.
Today we celebrate that the house she lived in for the last 32 years is sold and she's bought herself a really cute little condo all her own. Her 50th was last year and it just keep getting better!
When ever I see your nic (and even your previous one) I think of a chameleon. It fits you, too! Everytime we see you, you look different somehow. Bigger, braver, brighter, stronger, clearer, wiser, happier, free-er.......keep it up, you never know where it all might end, eh?
Do you remember the role call, not long ago, when Gabby asked us all about out favourite cake? Mine was rolled in and 'fully stuffed'. I think it's exactly the thing to liven up this party!
My very best wishes to you!!!! Keep looking up^, Susan.
Happiest of birthdays LadyCam!! You've been through alot, now starting your second half century you have started out on a new path, one of exploration, discovery and amazement!
It is so fitting that throughout all you've been through, that no one has been able to discourage you from seeking greater joy in your life! I know and understand where you have been, like many here, but to know that you have decided to say "NO" to a life of abuse, to work your way to freedom and now to walk tall and into a better future shows a self-confidence and worth even though you sometimes can't see it.
You go gurl! Just keep this positive thought on days when you have trouble seeing a brighter tomorrow,,,you're still not as old as I am! LOL
Happy Birthday LadyCam,,it is one of many celebrations yet to come!
Oh, and just a thought, as I passed the half century mark, I understand that now I get to celebrate my vintage, it makes me worth more the older I get! :)
OMG...I haven't been on here for a couple of days till tonight and I am smiling like a chesire(sp) cat. Oh, no one will ever realize the depths of feeling that I feel right now. It's like heaven right here on earth. Gee Thanks....Who loves you? Me, always and forever!
Here's a story that makes me remember "there, but for the grace of God, go I" and the grass is NOT greener on the other side. I've known my friend for over 7 years. About four years ago her hubby of 28 years, director of Music at the Baptist Church they attended, announced that he's gay! He shaved his head, bought a Harley and some leather pants, thanked her for raising their two boys,(now 24&26) moved in with Derk (the jerk) and has been trying to screw her over since. Old fashioned values (man heads the household) run amuck turns into emotional, psychological, financial abuse. I went through that with her and she went through my hell of the last couple years of my marriage, this separation and attempted divorce. Oh, the revenge we've fantasized over.
Today we celebrate that the house she lived in for the last 32 years is sold and she's bought herself a really cute little condo all her own. Her 50th was last year and it just keep getting better!
When ever I see your nic (and even your previous one) I think of a chameleon. It fits you, too! Everytime we see you, you look different somehow. Bigger, braver, brighter, stronger, clearer, wiser, happier, free-er.......keep it up, you never know where it all might end, eh?
Do you remember the role call, not long ago, when Gabby asked us all about out favourite cake? Mine was rolled in and 'fully stuffed'. I think it's exactly the thing to liven up this party!
My very best wishes to you!!!! Keep looking up^, Susan.
It is so fitting that throughout all you've been through, that no one has been able to discourage you from seeking greater joy in your life! I know and understand where you have been, like many here, but to know that you have decided to say "NO" to a life of abuse, to work your way to freedom and now to walk tall and into a better future shows a self-confidence and worth even though you sometimes can't see it.
You go gurl! Just keep this positive thought on days when you have trouble seeing a brighter tomorrow,,,you're still not as old as I am! LOL
Happy Birthday LadyCam,,it is one of many celebrations yet to come!
Oh, and just a thought, as I passed the half century mark, I understand that now I get to celebrate my vintage, it makes me worth more the older I get! :)
Huge Furry Hugs
I'll remember not to let you guys know when I turn 50!!! I'm not sure I want the world to know!!
Just kidding - have a fantastic b-day (or I hope you did!!!)
Hugs,
Pam
Peace and hugs,
Cheryl =)
The minute you settle for less than you