Is being controlling being abusive?
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Is being controlling being abusive?
| Wed, 10-06-2004 - 12:48pm |
Is being controlling being abusive?
For example telling you who its ok to talk to associate with be friends with...Having to let him know where you are at all times?
What if he is overly supicious due to the way women in his life before you acted and can be jealous to the point to where you feel slightly degraded ie he sniffs your underware when you come home from work, doesnt let you make a phone call without him in the room. Be on the computer to send an email And you personally never cheated on him.
Is this abuse? Even if he isnt calling you bad names, or hitting you?
For example telling you who its ok to talk to associate with be friends with...Having to let him know where you are at all times?
What if he is overly supicious due to the way women in his life before you acted and can be jealous to the point to where you feel slightly degraded ie he sniffs your underware when you come home from work, doesnt let you make a phone call without him in the room. Be on the computer to send an email And you personally never cheated on him.
Is this abuse? Even if he isnt calling you bad names, or hitting you?

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HALLELUJAH!!!
Thank you thank you thank you thank you for posting that, mgnorth.
My favorite part of your post:
"But the truth is that most times, that confidence gives a victim the clarity to get out, which in most cases I've seen here, including my own, is the best thing anyway."
~Me
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