Can't take this!
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| Thu, 01-19-2006 - 3:53pm |
URGHHH!!
Ever since I left my husband one week ago I have been hearing from so many people that I'm just using the abuse as an excuse to get out of the relationship. These are people that know the whole story! They know about the shoving, headbutting, choking, and all the fear. What's wrong with these people??? These are people I respect. They aren't all my husband's family, I expect some resistance out of them. Is this really so widespread that people think it is normal, or am I overreacting to things that have happened to me? I feel like maybe they are right, maybe I am just looking for an excuse to get out of my relationship. But then why did I feel so lonely, afraid, and empty when I lived with him? I almost feel ashamed to tell people about the real story if they will be thinking bad things about me. I keep thinking about what my mother-in-law said:
"How does she think you are supposed to fight?? You can't just draw straws!"
Can you believe she said that! It makes me so ANGRY! And this was the woman cheering me on several months ago, telling me how much of an a** my husband is and that she would've left a long time ago. At least I have my parents on my side, and the women's shelter. And you guys. I love you guys for being here for me and letting me know that I am not overreacting, and this is a real BIG problem!
Hugs,
K

Oh, now that makes me MAD!