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| Thu, 08-12-2004 - 9:55pm |
I asked for information on child custody WRT "secret" and the CL and then the paralegal answered.
So here I am in disguise incase my H wonders to this part of iV. You never know, it could happen. . .
So my question of the day today is, what do you tell your spouse when you are working on your plan of action and you can't let them know you're going to drop them like a hot potato? Mine asked me about a half hour ago in a phone conversation (he is currently working part-time out of town and is staying with his cousin and brother), "So, would you miss me if I was gone tomorrow?" and quite frankly, I'd be rather pleased if he were gone from life as I know it tomorrow. But I couldn't tell him the truth. I had to lie. He then said to me, after I asked him how much he missed me, "I'd miss you alot - I wouldn't be able to function for long, long, long time". Gosh that helps.
So what do you say when your spouse asks you questions that you aren't prepared to answer?
~Me

Hi Awakened and welcome ;)
Well, one of the things we recommend is to not tell them you're leaving.
CL-Blueliner4